Dating after divorce how long should you wait
Someone who really loves you in a healthy way will give you time and space when you need it.They won’t force you to stay with them, or punish you for needing to figure things out.•Your boyfriend hits you or hurts you physically in any way. •He forces you, or pressures you to have sex with him or to do things you don’t want to do. •You can’t talk to him about how you are feeling of what you are thinking. •You don’t have feelings for him anymore, or your feelings have changed.•Your boyfriend makes you feel stupid, fat, ugly or unworthy of anything •He has cheated on you. •He calls you a bitch, or a slut, or a whore, or any other derogatory name. Are You Staying With Him Because: • He makes you feel confident, empowered and appreciated……..OR BECAUSE you don’t have any idea how to tell him that you don’t want to be with him anymore and you are scared to try. OR BECAUSE you are afraid that no one will ever love you as much as he loves you.• He lets you have your own life and lots of friends, independent of him……..•The right person for you is out there somewhere, and you won’t have to hold your breath when you are with him, or try to be better so that he doesn’t hurt you, or try to fix what is wrong with him…will love you just the way you are and he will build you up instead of tear you down. •If things were meant to work out, breaking up won’t stop that.People break up all the time and get back together…if you are not ready to break up for good, just give yourself a few weeks to get some distance from the relationship and see how you feel…decide what you want to do.
•He inspires you to be a better person and to trust yourself to chase after your dreams……..
•You are a beautiful, brave, smart and amazing person!
The person you end up with is LUCKY to be dating someone as amazing as you.
OR BECAUSE Everyone in his life lets him down, and you feel bad adding yourself to that list.
• Things aren’t perfect, but you feel safe and valued even when you disagree…….. OR BECAUSE If you break up with him he will punish you. •You have a right to end a relationship at any time, for any reason.